“You are acting as REAL MEN if you are living on timeless principles and values. You must lead and protect women, children & families. You must also provide for their needs not just financially, but also emotionally.” That’s what the men of Boiling Waters said when asked what makes a real man. The group, which started in 2006, has been making itself visible on Facebook and Twitter with their posts, telling men how to treat women. Describing themselves as a movement of people passionate about inspiring manhood and womanhood, Boiling Waters tell us what it’s like to be a “caregroup ng mga tunay na lalake.



What made you guys decide to start this group?

It’s our need. We are looking for a safe community where we can open our personal issues in life without critical judgement from anyone else. We also believe that it’s our call to raise up men and women who will help fight against sexual harassment, abuse of women and children, poverty, etc. Like Edmund Burke said, “The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” We should do something, the time to act is now. And we cannot do this alone.

How many are you in the group, and what is your age range?

We are not sure about our exact head count. It’s a growing network of communities who believe in our cause. 21-35 is our age range.

How did you come up with the name?

We want to become a passionate leaders and lovers, not lukewarm and passive. How do you harden an egg? Voila! Boiling waters!


Are you mentored by other men?

Yes! Like Michael Jordan, we need Coach Phil; like Manny Pacquiao, we need Freddie Roach; and like Anakin, we need Obi Wan. We have this instinct inside of us. We have the drive to achieve great things, overcome our weaknesses, and fight for our princesses.

Tell us something about the caregroup, how does it work?

We’re having fun! We want our men to level up and man up to life’s challenges. We have peer-to-peer coaching and group meet up.

What are some topics or issues that the group usually talk about?

We are composed of single and married guys. We talk about sex, dating & courtship, family issues, sports, movies, careers, books, politics, social media, education, music, espionage, college days, arts, leadership, and principles from the Bible.

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What are some of the challenges that you face with Boiling Waters?

We are frustrated or discontented every time we feel like we’re not making any progress on our career, life goals, and relationship with girls.

What makes this group different from all the other male groups?

We are all uniquely created.  It just so happens that we bond very well as a team , and people like it.

What do you hope to accomplish with Boiling Waters?

Raise up passionate lovers, faithful husbands… Then make babies, build and multiply value-driven families, change the world!



#Batcave -lungga kung saan nagtitipon-tipon ang mga torpe.
#BradNaman –something you should refrain from doing, or else we will find you, and we will expose you.
#SupladoMoves – mga moves na makakatulong sayo upang maging swabe/classy.
#BoilingPoint – isang punto na gusto naming marealize mo.
#BoilingPost – isang komento na may kabuluhan. Kung ayaw mo ma-feature. Shut up na lang, pare.
#ChivalryIsBack –lines that promote Chivalry.


#NinjaMoves –mga shortcut at iresponsableng pamamaraan kung pano makadiga sa mga babae. No commitment.
#Ninja –isang sugo ng kaduwagan. Sa dilim umaatake.
#NinjaASAssin- isang uri ng ninja na nasobrahan sa confidence. Intruder. Gatecrasher. Asa.
#Warrior –isang maginoong mandirigma. Sumusunod sa tamang protocol. Nasusugatan at nasasaktan din.
#Prinsesa – isang mayuming matiyagang naghihintay ng isang magiting na mandirigma. Madadalas napapaasa ng Ninja.


Favorite movies?

  • Lord of the Rings
  • Saving Private Ryan
  • Chronicles of Narni
  • Taken series
  • 300
  • Napoleon Dynamite
  • Blades of Glory
  • August Rush
  • Nacho Libre
  • The Bourne series
  • The Jesus Film

Favorite books?

  • Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
  • Fathered by God by John Eldredge
  • Reflections of a Man by Amari Soul
  • Real Marriage by Mark Driscoll
  • Man in the Mirror by Patrick Morley
  • Bourne Series by Robert Ludlum
  • Epicenter by Joel Rosenberg

Favorite date places?

  • Rustic MorningsInquire for their evening reservations. The  place is magical. 
  • Cloud 9, AntipoloIf you love city lights. This the best in town!
  • Bulawan Floating Restaurant -Try it pag gabi. Romantic place, and the food is great!
  • Stacy’s Capitol HillsGanda ng view, men! The place is cozy.
  • Seafood IslandPara ma-enjoy niyo yung pagkakamay. Great way to have fun while eating.

Biggest no no on a first date?

Don’t ask about her past relationships.

Three Qualities that will make you want to pursue a woman?

  1. She has her own goals, and is supportive to mine as well.
  2. Family oriented.
  3. SSS! -Smart, Sexy, and Sweet.

Five man tips to win a woman’s heart?

First of all, to win her heart, let me ask you how’s your heart? Your values, principles, faith, attitude, and character… That’s your foundation.  Be the valiant warrior. Show courage by declaring your intentions. Be intentional to her by showing consistency in your words and actions. Follow through on your commitment. Get rid of the “Ninja Moves.” You can be that warrior. Step up your game.


To know more about Boiling Waters…
Twitter: @boilingwatersph
Facebook: Boiling Waters


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